Sex after loss of baby!!

I was just wondering if any other women had trouble having sex again after losing a baby? We loss our baby boy 4wks ago at 19wks. I have stopped bleeding and my husband is literally dying. Lol but every time I try to get inmate with him I can’t stop thinking about the baby and how it felt when I delivered him. Then I just get upset and can’t. I hate it bc I know he is ready to start trying for another baby. Please let me know if I am not the only one!