Spill the beans 👀

Okay ladies I’m having my 1st baby in about three months and I was wanting to know things that people don’t really talk about after giving birth. Any tips or advice that really helped you out? Or is there anything people don’t really tell you that I should prepare for.. feel free to say anything no matter how unappealing it is! Also feel free to tell me your stories! Did you use an epidural!??