Can’t get wet?

So, I’ve been having sex lately and it’s hard for me to get wet. There could be a number of reasons why including:

•on many different antibiotics for tonsils for around a month now

•not being given head/foreplay first

•switched birth controls

•using condoms

Does any of this make it painful for y’all to have sex? Peeing always burns like a motherfucker right after, and I’m positive it’s because I can’t get as wet as I used to be able to.

Do you guys hurt after sex bc ur not wet enough? Like am I alone in this