Husbands comments make me want to stop ttc does anyone have advice? Experiences?

We’ve been ttc for 15 months now and every once in a while we’ll argue about different things, I view family much differently than he does, I grew up around my parents and siblings that’s it I know family is a big thing for Mexicans but not my family. I don’t really see aunts and all that as close family. But my husband does he’s very close to his family.ive tried to be close with them but during my engagement they were very rude to me especially my MIL now she’s better but I just don’t see them as family. I mean obviously they’re important bc they’re his family but to me they’re just “hubbys family” anyways. Today I saw two little kids and they looked like elementary schoolers so I said omg look they’re so little to be walking home alone! And my husband is like, they’re old enough, my kids are going to be walking home in elementary. I said no they’re not they’re too little that’s dangerous. And he said “why?? You’re going to ruin my kids!” And I said how? And he said because you’re just going to spoil them. And I got mad and didn’t say anything. This is the most recent thing but he always has something to say when it comes to what my parenting style would be ect. And it really makes me not want to have kids with him. Like yes I’d love kids I want 4+ kids I’ve always wanted to be a young mom. But suddenly I’ve lately I feel like he would judge and be upset with anything I do with our kids. Has anyone felt like this? Where you love your husband but can’t see raising a family together. I guess I’m just scared that he’s going to argue with me over everything saying that I’ll “Ruin” our kids like who says that? We’ve been ttc 15 months and I want to stop because of this but is it because I’m just being petty? Idk😭