Sex🤔

So my boyfriend of 3 years almost 4 has been arguing with me a lot lately. He is saying he doesn’t feel good enough for me because I rarely ever want to have sex. I’ve told him over and over that I just want to spend time with him and feel close to him. He still argues with me about this and says I only see how I want to see things. I feel like if I don’t want to have sex I shouldn’t have to put my feelings about it aside so he can be satisfied. Also I have been in relationships where I was forced to have sex and don’t like feeling forced.

Thoughts?