Adviceeeee

So me and this dude started talking and he wants to come pick me up he’s willing to drive 30 minutes to come pick me up and take me out to eat and spoil me as he would say and then he said he wants to take me to his place to have to take my virginity .. I’m 18 btw lol but is that a red flag or is it just natural for guys to be this way I can’t lie it disappointed me because why can’t guys get through the first date without sex.. also I did tell him no! That’s I don’t wanna do it and he lowkey tryna force it