I’m laughing at myself for asking this...

Ok, so I’ll start by saying I’m in my late 20’s and I’ve been sexually active for quite awhile, but I’ve only ever had 2 partners my whole life. But there’s always been one question I’ve been too weirded out/afraid to ask. When you are trying to set the mood, can you touch his penis before it gets hard, or is that weird? Prior to having my baby, I always let my husband take the lead, but for whatever reason since then I’ve gotten bolder so I really need to know 😂

I know this is ridiculous but I’d rather find out now than do it and have my husband wonder wtf I’m doing. Typically my husband gets hard without me having to touch him but sometimes he just can’t take a hint 🙄