Help please

Ok, so i honestly don’t even know where to begin this post.

I was with my husband for 9 and half years. Things were great until we got married. He started being distant, let his mother control our every move, and eventually let his mother kick me out. Right before our separation i found out he was on tinder and various other dating/hookup apps. We’ve been separated 10 months and have filed for divorce.

Fast forward to now. I met a great guy and I’m really happy. But soon to be ex husband called to tell me he just found out he has herpes.. I’ve also been having issues. I went and got tested but i havent gotten my results back yet. Every single one of my symptoms matches the herpes symptoms. I’m in absolute panic.. I’m so angry and scared. Can anyone give me some advice? Treatments. How to deal with this is if my results come back positive? I feel like my life is over. 😭