Tell me if I'm wrong!

Ok everyone so a while Go I posted about my marriage being a mess because my s/o had a drug addiction... well since then we had a conversation and we decided to try and fix it. But also at the same time I noticed a change..... He never liked the idea of our phones having locks or passwords and boom one day I noticed he had a lock on it and he was sleeping with his phone tucked in his pillow or in his pocket!!! 🤔 I asked him about it and he would just brush me off like nothing. So like a week ago I bought a Christmas tree and decorations and I was in a good mood with my kids there helping me decorate 😊 he comes home and says I'm going to a friend's bday party for a little this was a Saturday I Said ok. Then bed time came and we all went to bed and he was not home... I woke up at 5:30 am Sunday morning and my husband of 12 years was still not home 😠 I called him a couple of times and he answered like the 20th time saying he was on his way home ( they live 15 mins away) I fall asleep again and I wake up at 7:20am and still no husband!!!😠 he walks in at 7:40am with an attitude I left and did some errands he ignored me all day mind you we were to do Xmas shopping together. The whole day passes and I go home at 11pm he was gone!!! I start driving around and I call him he tells me he is out getting food I appear and BOOM he had another chick driving his car they were eating together!!!😠 I approach them he was hiding talking to me on the phone I made the girl get tf out the car she was shitting bricks!! I bitch slapped him and punched him in the face like 10 x and the girl said she knew about me and they were just friends!!! BULLSHIT! she said she only gives him advice! Bullshit they been video talking on whatsapp on Instagram and all that I was tracking it all!! All this happened and my 2 daughter saw it all.. I kicked him out! I'm done! Am I wrong people?! Mind you this girl works next door to my husband's barbershop I'm always telling him to stop being so friendly and shit!