Sidechick rant

Okay so I was watching this video about a woman who (accidentally) murdered her husband of I believe 20 years ? because he had a whole mistress, during 2 years of the affair the mistress taunted the wife calling her names and such (check out the vid on YouTube for more details) , as I do with everything , I scrolled through the comments and a lot of them were blaming the mistress and such. I ended up seeing a comment basically stating that women always ignore the husband and go after the man , blah blah blah (comment featured below)

THIS WAS MY COMMENT IN RESPONSE TO HER (I know I went in but that’s because people have been making excuse for shitty behavior for too damn long)

Now while the man IS COMPLETELY wrong for cheating and breaking his vows , if you WILLINGLY sleep with a man you know is in a relationship, you are just as trash.

I say this because ,yes the man took his vows and was supposed to respect them BUT you opened the door for him to break those vows , a man can’t cheat if he has no one to cheat with (except prostitutes , which in that case , yikes )

Another flawed excuse that I see women trying to throw out is not owing the woman loyalty ... tsk tsk

No , you don’t owe anyone loyalty , however , being a decent person is completely free of charge

Also I see a lot of the women who say things like this are always trying to play into women empowerment and make you feel as if you’re shaming them or going after another girl , my question is , how come your fellow girl doesn’t matter when youre fucking her man knowingly ? I just think it’s the strangest thing that some women demand respect when it comes to their clothing , professions , etc but can’t do something as simple as respect a relationship, as if there arent a billion other single people in the world.

But so long as there’s people who willingly fuck men in relationships , karma will make its round

I’m open to a conversation on this topic but don’t come for me sis , my block button works wonders 😉

And yes I do argue with people on the internet sometimes 🙄