Relationship

So I'm in this relationship with a guy that I really love. Hes 21 and I'm 19. And dont get me wrong I've had a lot of guys that I've loved before, but he is somehow diffrent. But everyone that I know is saying that hes a bad person. And in some aspect I can see it, because he has a really bad cursing problem, he is exmilitary, he also likes to joke by calling me an a**, which doesnt really bother me, and he likes things about me a certain way, some would say it's almost like he is controlling me, like he likes my hair to be either blonde or brunette he doesnt like multi colors. Doesnt like me wearing makeup. Just simple things. And likes to call me a bad driver. But idc about that. But when him and I are on the phone talking he is always sweet as can be. I love him so much. He loves me for me, he makes sure I am safe, and just wants the best for me, he also makes me laugh even when I dont want to.

So basically from what I've said I think hes a good guy. And of course there nbn is always some room for improvement but I only want him to if he wants to. I dont wanna force him to do anything. Cause I'm with him for him. And he has a past of things that he doesnt like talking about. Weve been together for almost 2 months and he hasn't told me anything about his past.

How long does it usually take for a guy to trust you with everything?

Weve gone as far as to planning our future out together, and getting married after I'm done with college.

So any advice is greatly appreciated. Leave it down below!