Bf and ultimatums

So I’m in a LDR, and I’m going to visit him in a few weeks but my dad also lives in a city in the country and I haven’t been on the best terms with my father over te years and I’m trynna change that so I was also gonna go visit him for 2 days and my bf said that if I go for more than a day not to look for him. I get my bf bc we haven’t seen each other in two years and the trip is already going to be short, but it’s my father... what do you guys think ?

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Dad and bf live about 3/4 hour drive away.

Haven’t seen bf in two years and now I’m only going for like two weeks.

And I originally told Bf I would go to see my dad and come back the same day so I get he’s upset. But I told my dad about the 1 day thing and he seed upset and I felt guilty. But now I feel guilty about my bf.