Don’t know how I should feel..🤷🏼‍♀️ UPDATE**

My boyfriend has three amazing boys from a previous relationship who we have all the time, since I have been with him I’ve told him his boys are a priority over me (he worries and tries to please everyone) he asked his ex months ago what is happening at Christmas so plans could be made, she said to come up in the morning when they open their presents but not to stay for dinner as it will give the boys false hope that their parents will get back together which I did agree with her (for once) he spoke to the boys today as they keep asking ‘dad are you staying for dinner’ he told them no he would go up in the morning and then leave and we’ll have them all day Boxing Day to have a second Christmas with them they agreed and happy about this, when he took them home she wanted to talk to him and now suddenly he’s staying up there all day and he’ll see me sometime Christmas night.

I hate Christmas anyway as my dad died and it was long painful cancer battle and he’s made all these promises to me that we’ll have this most amazing Christmas and now suddenly she can’t cope with her family going round and now he’s staying to help her out, when he called and told me he said I know you’re angry and I just lied and said I was tired.

To be honest I don’t know how I feel, I wouldn’t be bothered if he was staying for his boys but he’s staying to help his ex that used to hit him and screams at him constantly even now....

We’ve spoken to his boys and they said they were happy to have two separate Christmas days and my boyfriend has told me when he spoke to his ex she admitted that SHE wanted him over Christmas Day because she wants to give him some of the good stuff that his little **** can’t give him (ie. me) the boys were actually worried what I’d be doing Christmas Day and they told their dad he had to stay with me so I wouldn’t be lonely and they’d see us the next day...I honestly love his boys so much for their ages they really are understanding about the whole situation and they’ve told me and their dad they’d love to live with us full time as we don’t scream and shout like my boyfriend did with his ex (she did all the screaming)