Rude nurses ?

Something that just hasnt set right with me since my MC back in Aug. is how the nurses told me "he gave you 10 days off work but I dont know why you would need all that time" something along those lines. I was 13 weeks and had a natural MC I basically had a mini labour with my little one. Water broke, i had contractions and everything. Do yall think I'm over reacting? I just dont understand why they cant see how traumatizing, painful, messy, and long the process is. I'm a waitress and wouldnt dare come to work under those circumstances.