Super clingy bf🤦🏽‍♀️ help.

Sooo im usually really clingy. Like i constantly like to be close and touching. My ex wasnt clingy at all but he would let me lay all over him and i thought i wanted him to wanna be touchy butttt now that my current bf is super clingy im getting so annoyed🤦🏽‍♀️ i was trying to be patient w him bc im the first real gf he has had but its making me feel grouchy when we hang out bc he wont get off of me ugh. I really do love him so how can i tell him nicely that i dont want to be touchy all the time without making him feel like he cant touch me at all.. if that makes sense😕