Being unapproachable

So I honestly believe and have been told that I’m so attractive, I’m unapproachable, intimidating blah blah blah. Im so over it but I’m not going to dumb down my looks just to make some one else more comfortable. I feel like it weeds out the weak men and I dont need that in my life anyway.

But on another note it gets lonely 😩 people always assume I have all these guys that want me when the reality is they don’t approach me because of this insecure thinking! I feel like im going to be single for ever unless I make the first move. And it doesn’t help that I’m so damn shy when it comes to people I like. What should I do?????