Mothering/wife help !

Hi ladies! I’m

Im seeking any pats on back here or compliments just some honest , informative help. As a very independent , stubborn working Mum and wife who is also bit of a perfectionist how do you ladies out there with that same family setup live thru life in your role without feeling taken advantage off a bit and under appreciated! I don’t want to ask my children and husband for thanks even though I know they feel that way. I just don’t feel that way very often!? Just gets you down a lot this gig I find!

Thanks