Was Chase right in doing this?

Question

So recently I found out the guy (we’ll call him James) I was talking to for a month let my ‘best friend’(we’ll call her Lily) give him a blowjob. Then both of them hung out with my the next day (at separate times) and didn’t tell me until later.
So I had a conversation with both of them and decided I was going to give both of them another chance but last night I was visibly upset and ended up telling my sister and one of my best friend (we’ll call him chase)
So the girl who did that with the guy I decided to drop her because she knew better than to do that and I’ve already given her a chance. The guy I was going to give another chance.. then chase told me if I gave the guy another chance then I needed to unfriend him because he didn’t want to see me get hurt.

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I've had to let a friend go because of things like this. Sometimes you just can't stick around to watch someone make bad decision after bad decision. It seems that "Chase" cares about you and he might even know something about the guy that you don't, but doesn't want to be messy out it and is willing to let you see for yourself now.

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I think its a double standard if youre going to give the guy another chance and forgive him but not forgive the friend. It was wrong of her to do that but he didnt remove his dick from her mouth either. So he obviously wanted it to happen and liked it. Sounds like the only one who really cares is "chase"

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Any reason is reason enough to not want to be friends with someone. It’s hard to see people you care about constantly make bad decisions and hurt themselves while not listening to any advice given to them. 
You all sound very immature though. Someone else’s sex life isn’t your business and they aren’t obligated to tell you if they’re getting physical with each other. You all sound like you have some growing up to do

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I had a friend who I almost had to let go of because she refused to leave a bad relationship. It wasn’t physical but he was cheating on her and she was getting into all this drama with the other girl instead of just leaving him. It was a very childish and immature situation from all parties. She did leave him a few times but always ran back to him within a week or 2. I couldn’t stand the disappointment I always had in her and I didn’t feel it was fair for me to keep criticizing and judging her decisions. 
Your friend cares about you but they must also care about themselves first sometimes and if they don’t want to stick around to see you get hurt and put yourself in more situations to possibly get more hurt then that’s his right.

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Chase is just trying to look out for you. I personally don’t believe in second chances I’m a fck me over I will drop you in a heartbeat 🙃 so I would pick chase

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There both in the wrong if he’s going to do that now why wouldn’t he cheat later. And as for your friend u don’t need someone like that. You should have cut them both off.

Was Chase right in doing this?

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