13 weeks he doesn’t want it. But he won’t leave me.

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I’m stuck in this ongoing depression of this relationship because I love him and he loves me and we weren’t trying I was on birth control and now I’m pregnant and he doesn’t want the baby he’s not ready but he won’t leave me and he’s miserable all the time I don’t know what to do he tells me that I’m not gonna be able to take care of it we just bought a house together in June. I’m 22 and he’s 23. He tells me he wants to have kids with me just not right now he’s not ready. But he’s known for the whole 3 years we’ve been together I do not believe in abortions. At 5 weeks he basically told me he “didn’t want to make a decision for me but..” and basically asked me to get one... I couldn’t even look at him. We were fine everything was going good and now that I’m pregnant we fight all the time. I never imagined such a miserable pregnancy. I just want support from him but I don’t think I’m going to get it. I told him to just leave if he thinks I can’t take care of the baby and if I’m that lazy. Or to just leave so he’s not “forced into being a father”. Idk what to do anymore I’m so disgusted with the whole situation. I want to cry all the time. Please don’t tell me to leave him because of this I want to work things out but he’s really stubborn. I just need advice and someone to talk to because we haven’t even told anyone yet. I don’t want to tell anyone because how unhappy he is.

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