I had known him for about 9 years and married for 3. He got his british nationality through me. Since then he changed and his family (who live in Pakistan) also started to brainwash wash against me. We have a 2 year old son together. He walked out on me and child and stopped making payments for bills, credit cards and store cards which he used and these cards were under my name. I have been a house wife. I begged and waited for him for a year, while he continued to harras not just me but also my family, threatened me and continued to fight over msg and calls etc. I then decided to move on. After just one week of no contact he cane begging to my family and wanted to be with me and child. I moved in with him. Then the same behaviour started. Here are a few:

- he told me many times he will take our child to pakistan without me and i know this is risky because his family will not allow my child to come back and can do anything wrong to him

- he pushed me and called me names and abused me with swear words while i was pregnant for second time. He never showed any empathy and eventually i had a miscarriage which he seemed happy about

- i have told him few times i want to work so we can both buy a house but he always ignores this and never want to co-parent so i can also leave my son and go to work but instead he calls me a waste piece of shit who got two degrees for nothing

- he does not gv me any money but has given his credit card and he tracks and questions every single transaction and also findsout where i went etc by seeing the transaction details and keeps an eye on me and fights over this

- he also followed me to the next street just to see where i was going WHILE he left the child unattended alone at home just to follow me!!

- he tood me to leave the house with my child bcoz its HIS house and HIS money and threatened to divorce me if i send our child to pre-school

- when he wants to have sex he would be all over me while i am asleep and if he wants to give his silent treatment then he would not evn look at me just walk around with head held high as if he is the boss and i am slave. He never asks if we r ok i was ill with vertigo in and out of hospital while my child was ill with fever and he left us both for my family and went to turkey on holiday with friends without any ocntact with me for a week

- i called police twice when he was screaming shouting with threats but they just took report and left. Husband acts very different in front of others he would open door for me smile laught but at home he is a monster.

Now he is forcing me to go pakistan where his family have ‘some issues to sort out with me’. I have no idea what bcoz i am the one suffering. They hate me and want to get rid of me. My husband is the only source of income his family has and his other brothers just sleep or go out and do not work. I have told him il not go and he has restricted the access to his credit card and just giving me silent treatment and basically torturing me without saying anything. I want him to get arrested for these as i know all this comes under abuse in uk law. I want him to spend good amount of time in jail for ruining my life and putting me through alot more than above. I am on anti depressants and seeking counselling. This man has made me a psycho. I cnt evn explain those fights and abuse over every small thing. I have palpitations when he comes home i am scared of him.

Pls someone advice or share experiences. Pps also answer the arresting part. I want him to get punished for the suffering he caused otherwise he will do it to another!!