Start over

Being married everyone says the first year will be hard.

It was hard 🙃🙃🙃

For 2019 I wanna talk to him or write a letter explaining how I kindve want a do over or like to turn a new leaf really and get things back on track and leave all the shit in 2018.

1) what new things should we do to spark the candle again?

2) how should I word it so that he doesnt feel offended that I want to "start over"