When do you know when a relationship is toxic.

Ive been abused for years starting with my parents. By my ex the father of my kids.. And i guess other men ive dated.

I know it sounds stupid to some but im so use to getting hurt i dont know when enough is enough. Can you ladies please put your input of what is a toxic relationship to you. Or things youve experienced.

I am seeing a therapist. So i am getting help .