Am I over reacting???

So my husband and I have been married for about 9 months. I am currently pregnant, and a senior in college so we do not live together officially as my college is 3hours away. He refuses to get a joint account because he claims he is not ready to share his financials with me. When I am not at the house, he does not give me a dime, I am responsible for my up keeping, he pays nothing for me besides the most recent thing being a phone bill. He does not give me any money whatsoever. He he gets extra money for “taking care of the household” as he is in the military, but I do not live in said household. Am I wrong for requesting him to give me money??