What do you guys think?

Question

I haven’t had sexual contact w my husband for around 2 weeks.. i finally ask him for sex today and his answer is ‘no’ ‘tomorrow babe’ ‘later’.
WTF , we used to have sex twice a day almost everyday, ever since i got pregnant and everything we have no sex ! Only like once a month .. i respect that he doesnt want to but why the sudden change, ever since he started going out to ‘soccer games’ hes been like this.
Ive talked to him and he says the same ‘i just dont feel like it’

Answer

My ex was grossed out by my pregnant body but didn’t have the “heart” to tell me that at the time.  I decided I couldn’t really blame him for having found it unattractive, just because it was normal didn’t mean he was obligated to find it arousing.  
But...then I found out he also cheated on me that pregnancy.  With a girl that was literally LITERALLY double my pregnant body weight.  So I knew then that it was all bs.
Some guys are genuinely turned off by the pregnancy changes though.

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My husband is the same but behind him saying it there’s reasons to it so I don’t stress it anymore. I’ll get when out here or there but sex is nonexistent at the moment. I crave it yes but he’s traumatized. We had 2 miscarriages in the past and the second one was in the middle of us having sex. Once he pulled out there was blood and a couple days after that I miscarried. But our doctor says having sex won’t cause it but he’s traumatized and won’t put me nor this baby in jeopardy which is understandable. 
I don’t blame him I’d probably be to. This will be his first son so if I have to wait the remaining 4 months plus 6 weeks to finally have sex than it’ll all be worth it. 
Try having your doctor or social worker talk to him see if they can get to the root of the problem. I’m sorry darling 😢 I know how you feel

Answer

Talk to him

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