Would you update your baby daddy if he doesn’t even come see your child?! My little girl is 8 months old he expects me to update him but doesn’t even bother to come see her. Only came and seen her way before Christmas and it’s almost a month now and he hasn’t checked on her because his other baby momma and when he comes back to the United States then he will start asking about her again. He has 2 more kids he will hop on plain to see across the country but doesn’t really bother coming to see our daughter who is 2 half hours away.