I need advice from other couples who have this same problem and possibly fixed it?? I’m trying everything I can do so that video games won’t ruin my marriage.. I’m so tired of my husband spending money on nothing, when he says it helps his crappy days and keeps him in touch with his old friends. Any advice on what you have your SO do instead?? There is no use in smashing everything. I’ve tried spending time with him, getting out of the house, exercising, asking him to play with his baby, and I’ve even brought up counseling to fix the “problem” that he doesn’t realize he has. Heck I’ve even tried playing the games with him and it makes me sick. I know he’s only 20 and still learning to be a dad and husband but it needs to stop. Any advice????