I was snooping on my boyfriends phone because I was suspicious, and I was right. Toward the beginning of our relationship he came clean that he was reminded by a friend who asked about a girl he used to hook up with that he still had some semi naked photos of her, which he showed me, apologized for, and deleted right in front of me. It was upsetting at first but the fact that it came from him made me feel like I could trust him. Today though, I found chats of him flirting with a girl I know somewhat, saying “you must’ve drove your ex crazy wearing that” and to another girl he used to talk to saying “I was so happy when we were ‘friends’ but now I’m so unhappy.” Lastly, I found that a girl accidentally sent him nudes, and he did block her and ignore it, but he never told me about it and i found dms from her. I feel bad for snooping and I already confronted him, and he wasn’t mad about the snooping, but he apologized profusely and sobbed for an hour for the going behind my back, flirting, lying, etc. I feel destroyed. I feel so hurt and lied to and undesirable and everything in between. I love him and want to fix it, but is it even as big of a deal as it feels? Is this cheating? I don’t know how to feel. Should I give him another chance? What do I do...