So I need to vent and get some opinions. I’m in a horrible relationship there has been physical abuse mental you name it and I have been here before but this time it’s different I’m going to be moving out of state with my children to escape this man and he thinks he’s is coming with me and I’m scared and confused because a he is an alright father to the child we have together but I know deep down the second we leave he’s not going to see him he has three children who he doesn’t see now for reasons I was never told everything this man has done has brought me down in debt and brought me to this state that I am so stressed out I hardly function and I just do things to please and keep the fighting non existent you heard of sleeping with the enemy well how about living with the enemy ... my question that I wanna get some opinions on how do I leave and not cause confrontation?