My boyfriend doesn't want me to get any sex toys bc he thinks his dick would be smaller than them and if I use the toys I won't be able to feel anything when we have sex.. i really want toys for when I masturbate and I know he'd like it too. He's just too insecure ig. But he isn't small....... Like my V rips almost every time we have sex😬

Idk how to convince him that

1) his dick isn't small

2) i would definitely still rather have sex with him than just masturbate

And 3) I should have a toy bc I can't make myself feel the way he makes me feel