Hi ladies!

Excuse my rant but I just really want to get this out there and maybe get some insight but like literally how do y’all find a man who you really like and are attracted to and who really likes you/is attracted to you in return?? Like everyone makes it look and seem so simple and natural and I’m out here like

Anyway I’ve just noticed that any and every time, I show even the slightest bit of interest in a guy, he’s either

1. Taken

2. Too old

3. Too young

4. Too immature

5. Not committed

The list goes on

I realize I’m only 19 and have a lot to do and experience but I just hate having no control over finding a great guy. I’ve tried tinder and it’s not for me. My friends and family and basically everyone else says “it’ll happen when it happens” like they’re so convinced it’s going to but I just feel alone and I’m not sure if I’m ever going to get that. I know that sounds crazy but when you’re single for awhile ya think crazy things. I’d really love some advice and I love to hear your own stories about how you met your SO. Thanks for reading if you made it this far. Your girl appreciates it👍👌