So my husband is military but he’s on a profile so he can’t do normal work like others so they just have him do running around.. well today he told me all he did was go back and forth between 3 places and then sat in the car for like2-3 hours then got sent home.. so i was like okay easy day.. may have been frustrating and stupid but it was easy...

so he gets home and i start cooking dinner (I’m almost 33 wks pregnant and i have 2 doctors appointments today, i took my doc to the dog park and i cleaned the kitchen .. would have cleaned the whole house but i can’t really reach my floor😂😂.. my feet are swollen and my back hurts and i got all of 3 hours of sleep last night) he comes in kisses me, goes and takes a shit, then immediately turns my music off and get on his game. So i bring him food and he has his head phones on so i just fall asleep.. for like an hour.. the rest of the time I’m just watching.

So then at like 9:30-10 he turns it off(like usual) so we can watch a show together before bed it’s our thing.. he literally falls asleep 10 min into the show. So i wake him up so he can take the dog out and find our ferret(he likes to sleep under our couches).. he just lays there .. I’m like “dude get up and take care of the animals.. you didn’t want to spend time with me deal with them so we can go to bed” and he just says “sorry, that running around they had me do wore me out” i then replied “it didn’t wear you out enough to play video games” and got up and went into the bedroom

We are going to have a baby in about a month(getting induced early) and is really like time with my husband but he’d rather play video games and it irritates me. Like i seriously have to point out hey that’s garbage on the floor can you clean it up.. he won’t just do it.. or that the trash needs to go out.. it’s frustrating but I’m on his ass about it because there will be a baby soon. All i want is to spend some god damn time with my husband without him yelling at a tv or talking to people through a mic🙄🙄 am i wrong for being upset about him not spending time with me? I feel bad for being mad about him falling asleep but ugh! We have a schedule that usually works.. he plays for a few hours gets off then hangs out with me but for the past few weeks it’s failed. He also always takes the dog out at night because i have her all day everyday and our deal was when he gets home she’s his responsibility to take out and feed. I would have had to wake him up anyways because he was on the couch..