Sexy toys!?

So last year I bought a sex toy, my husband works out of town a lot. And I never told him I bought one for the reason that he’s so close minded, he gets mad if I masturbate 🙄

We don’t have the best communication because of that, they way he tries to control everything I do.

Anyways he found my toy recently and he says he feels like he’s not enough for me, which it’s not the case, I mean a girl has some needs. But he just doesn’t seem to let it go and I don’t know how to go through his head that it’s not even like that!

Any advice???