My Sister got with this guy 6 years ago.. he is 14 years older than her.. has 4 kids with his drug abuser ex.. she went to live with him 4 years ago and immediately was pregnant with my Niece then 2 years later my second niece... so a family of 8 here... last year he was fired from his well paid job (due to the company being sold) and never looked for another job... they barely scrape by.. we have paid for birthdays, Christmas', groceries, Bill's, etc (as have my dad and aunt and grandma).. my aunt GAVE them a minivan so they could get the whole family around safely and he can work. My sister teaches for Vipkid and makes great money with it (for a stay at home gig) ~$2200 -$2500 a month... they have lots of Bill's and debts but he sits on his ass playing video games.. my sister signed him up for UBER, LYFY, and doordash to help make SOMETHING that could help their situation and he wont do it!!!!!! He will make every excuse in the book not to get off his ass... he stays up all night... my sister works 8 hours at night (students are in China) and homeschooled my nieces... he doesnt do jack shit except complain about a messy house... he spends their last dollar on 2 packs of Winstons.. I'm so fucking livid... I told her that the well is dry here and we cant help anymore until he finds a job... my husband doesnt work 60-80 hour weeks to support 2 families... just wish my sister would wake the fuck up and get angry instead of calling me crying about what they dont have.. I feel of her.. she is with such a fucking loser...