Bf Basic training

Hey guys I just need to rant and ask for advice.

So my boyfriend and I have been together for a long time we’re very close. But he’s been gone in basic training for 3 1/2 weeks. No call no mail. And I’m in the support group on Facebook and people have gotten like 4 letters. Apparently his mom hasn’t gotten anything either but I’m so paranoid what if she did and didn’t want to tell me idk.

It’s just I know he’s working really hard but I know he’s had breaks cause his mom told me about getting ice cream and stuff. It just hurts so much cause I would hate not to get anything for 3 weeks and be left in the dark so I send him mail I just wish he would think the same.

I’m so discouraged how did y’all handle this?