Pain with penetration

I’m a virgin, so I thought the reason why I couldn’t finger myself or use a dildo was because I was just inexperienced. However, ive been trying and I just came to the conclusion that, how am I supposed to gain experience if everything hurts?! It scares me, I don’t want to never have sex because I can’t enjoy penetration.

Whenever I try, it feels like there’s a wall blocking anything off from entering. And when I do put things in it hurts reallllyyy bad and I usually have to pull out, and I’m sore for like a day or two. It sucks and makes me really sad.

Does anyone else have this experience?