Are there any good guys out there?

Tell me about your good guy. I mean, good, good guy. I’ve never dated one. I was married to what I thought, at first, was a good man, but he was a narcissist.

Now I’m dating a sorta selfish man who won’t commit. Is there such thing as a perfectly good guy? I just want someone who will

financially stable

Love my kids like his own

Split chores

Not cheat on me

Encourage my dreams

Want me (sexually and physically)

Works hard at his hopes and dreams

What is the secret to finding a good guy? I’m almost 32 and the men i date are my age and older.