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How do you know if ur hubby is ready for his first. Baby? I have two already from before ages 9 and 5... I mean how would I know he’s serouis... I have asked him he said letshave one.... he also hid my pills once and said don’t eat them... but me I dont know if he really wants it as am paranoid so I went and got more pills from docs ... help am confused to have one or not... I have asked him he saying yes let’s have a baby but I don’t know if he actually means it