What would you do in this situation?

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What would you do if you had your first ever one night stand, the condom broke, and you ended up pregnant? Your 21 years old and you have a 2 year old full time, your also in the process of trying to get your life back on track after it fell apart while you were pregnant (going back to school full time in September, getting license). Your due date is also in early September. The father of the baby has no interest in keeping it and wants you to have an abortion.

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If you and your life are not ready for another child, then you do not have to have another child. 
One in four women will have an abortion in their lifetime. Many of those women are already mothers to children that they love. Sometimes ending a pregnancy is the best choice for a situation. There is nothing shameful in making the best choice for you, your family, and your life.

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Sounds like you’ve made your decision and you definitely don’t need to justify it to anyone else.  ((hugs))

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I would keep it. I made the decision to have sex and it is my baby I would never be able to terminate

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Adoption. It doesn’t have to mean foster care. There are private agencies that can pair you to someone. But if you wanted to go the foster care route all you and the baby’s father have to do is sign over your rights to the state you live in. There are tons TONS TONS of people that are foster parents just hoping and praying for a chance to adopt an infant. (We were one of those families.) We would have only been so fortunate to have someone like you that would have been willing to sign the parental rights over. It was a tedious process for us bc the biological parents were in very bad places in their lives. We adopted. We love our daughter. She’s the best thing that has ever happened to us. Ultimately it’s your decision I get that. Just wanted to share my experience.

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Ughhh hun follow your heart

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I voted keep it because that’s what I would do. But if it is not right for you then you do what is best for your family. You do not need to validate your choice or explain the decision you make, to anyone.

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There are so many fantastic adoption agencies that would set your baby up with a family that’s just waiting to love on one! 
Blessings to you. Praying for you and your decision. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Do what you feel is right for you

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Early sept... you’re already 2 mos then? I’d probably terminate in that situation at 4-5 wks but 7,8,9 wks to me is a hard No. i’d figure out a way to make it work. Do whats best for you.

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I mean where is adoption at on your list of things you could do? I'm all for your body your choice.. but since I have a child.. I couldn't imagine aborting one personally. But if you see it as what you need to do, then that's the choice you need to make if keeping the baby would be to difficult to deal with.. even if it's just to give it up for adoption.

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