Spiraling out of control....

Cheyenne

Ok so me and my husband have been separated for 6 months or so and I've got a relationship with someone else now that I did not plan on happening..... Well the guy I'm with now is 11yrs older than me (he's 34) has 2 VERY disrespectful smart mouthed kids who he and his 2 baby Mama's don't discipline whatsoever, but he does everything for me and treats me right BUT he is a HUGE baby and whines when he doesn't get his way.....

My husband is a complete asshole who my family hates but he is a good dad to his daughter and he wants to make things right and get back together and communicate more.

Well my situation is,

I got a baby of a bf wit two babies of his own and loves and treats me right

I got an ass of husband who is a good dad who is wanting to do better and work things out

OR I can do away with both and move out of state like I planned before I ever met them both.

HELLPPP ?