I was in a long term relationship with the man I lost my virginity to and we broke up a year ago. I have seen/dated/hooked up with 2 men since. But I’m finding it really bad for my self confidence because after a few dates/hook up they don’t seem as keen to see me again as I was expecting.

It’s hard for me to not get down and wonder what I’m lacking.

I’m so new to this, and I’m trying to cut them off and just enjoy being single but I get so lonely, i just want male company but it’s effecting me emotionally.

I’ve tried to focus on myself and self love but I can’t help thinking about men.

Any tips or hints?