Struggle with control

So somehow I ended up being the one in the relationship who is in charge of everything- from groceries, cleaning, finances, appointments, meal plan. Basically everything. I need my husband to step up and start making some decisions because I’m getting so overwhelmed and i feel it’s starting to affect our relationship negatively. I’ve asked him to make simple decisions but it rarely happens. Idk how to get this through his head I don’t want to be in charge of everything. Does anybody have any suggestions??