Play time with dad

I'm keeping this anonymous because I know my husband has an account but I dont think the app... just in case though. So we have a 4 week old baby and a 18 month old who is crazy jealous that he doesnt get nearly enough attention right now (even if I play with him all day 🙄) so when his dad gets off work I start to cook dinner. Lately I've been taking away my husband's phone and turning the TV off so he has to give his kid 100% of his attention (which is incredibly hard for him because hes super attached to his phone and literally his only hobby or activity) today is Sunday so we spend time as a family. I started to cook dinner and turn off the TV and my husband got super irritated with me asking why he can't watch TV while they play?

Is it really that unreasonable of me to ask him to not be on his phone or watch TV during play time?

Also he is constantly yelling at him or always super irritated him for just doing things a 1 1/2 year old does... he babbles and says a few words but he does scream a lot (not really upset screaming, communication screaming if that makes sense to anyone else) but he still gets yelled at... I've talked with my husband so many times about this because its incredibly irritating and also hurtful to me because it makes me feel like he never wants to spend time with his kid... like why did we have kids then? I know I'm not a perfect mother I may have gotten a little more mad than i probably should have when he bit me but hes 1 1/2 he doesnt need to be yelled at... I grew up with a dad like that. He never listened to me and got so mad I wouldn't tell him things I never knew what to do...

I was mostly looking to vent here but opinions or advice are greatly appreciated because i dont want my kids to ever feel like they can't talk to either of us it was so shitty feeling that way with my dad even after I was diagnosed with severe depression and had a suicide attempt when I was 13.