Sex boring

Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years. When we used to have sex at the beginning of our relationship it was great. We would always start off by making out and then he would kiss all over my thighs, stomach, and neck. It would make me so wet and make me want him so bad.

Now it’s completely different. When he wants to have sex he will just start playing with my vagina and it always takes me forever to get wet. Once I’m finally ready and we have sex, I feel like he enjoys it more than I do. It’s not that it’s horrible it just feels like it doesn’t have any meaning behind it, like we’re just fucking rather than making love.

I don’t know what to do because I don’t want to hurt his feelings but I feel like we’ve lost our spark.