Would really like some advise

So I'm generally a sensitive person and however the other day I was round my boyfriend's house and we were eating breakfast with his parents and I ask my boyfriend what he wanted to do I made some suggestions and he declined all of the things I said because he wanted to play his video games which is find but I didn't want to sit by myself while he was on his games all day. He kept doing things that upset me and just being sarcastic and just putting me down then he told me that his parents didn't want to eat dinner with me anymore because there a chilled family and they don't like sitting with someone who causes arguments and that did hurt because I thought I'm just supposed to sit there? And when they are make me feel shit just take it however I can't do it back to them otherwise it's an agrument? I really beat myself up and thought is it me or not because I made the suggestions and everyone was rude. Then I got super upset and just cried because I felt so awful and uncomfortable and I was just told I'm a child and I need to stop playing the victim it feels like when ever I do something I'm wrong but it's right to put someone down and make them feel shit and irritate them but me asking for them to stop is causing an argument there's loads of little bits it's not just this basically I can't disagree with anything I would like someone's advise is this me or is it just unfair I don't really have many people to speak to about this..