My boyfriend and I live together. He came to me today and mentioned that his boss was looking for an administrative assistant for the company but I would also be MY BFS assistant the other half of the time working in the same office And room as him for the most part .

I told him I need to think about it.

Anybody have any similar experiences with this?

Part of me is leaning towards saying NO just because of the conflict of interest that MAY come along with it. But the other half of me is saying yes.. but I feel as if I only am interested because I don’t want him getting close with another female assistant if they were to hire another girl. And that I don’t want him to suddenly be spending time with a female “ assistant “ when he is used to working with all men.

Idk if I’m considering it because of insecurity or as me doing him a “ favor”.