Lied to my baby daddy

So maybe you know or don't but I've got a pretty shitty relationship with my baby daddy. It's gotten to a point where I need to get a TPO.

Well great news! I'm going Monday morning with my mom to get it! Yay!

I'm going to make it so that my family is also protected. After it's time is up I'll file for a restraining order.

He would not stop blowing my phone up. Saying he was gonna contact my family if I didn't answer his calls at a said time.. such BS I know 🤦‍♀️

Anyways he talked for an hour while I became more and more irritated with him by the minute.. I'm tired and 20 weeks pregnant.. it's also 1:30am now... Ugh.

Anywho I had let it slip out that I'd make sure he never contacted me again. Not wanting to tell him I was getting a TPO I told him I'd gotten a job interview I was waiting on.

He believed me.

He told me he wanted to see me one last time. I said sure 🙄

He then says he wants to fuck me. Again.. sure.

I've got no Intentions on keeping these "plans".

It's simply to keep him at Bay for a little while.. at least until Monday morning. That means I've got one full day of his bullshit to deal with them I'm free.

I will see him again in court which does suck but I know I will come out on top. I am a fighter. I will do whatever it takes to protect myself and my son when he's born.

I do not believe him when he tells me he will leave me alone. He has said it so many times it has lost all meaning.

In reply to Kathryn:

I've been told by multiple people I've needed to get a TPO (cops, judges, the district attorney even..) and in finally at a breaking point. I've delt with this for too long giving him the benefit of the doubt every time.. hoping he'd realize how serious this whole situation is. I don't believe he sees that even now. Even going to court and given the option to plead guilty and not speak to me for s year and jail time then a year of probation or fighting it and taking it to a superior court. He did decide to fight it, which in turn will just end him with more charges and more jail time 🤷‍♀️

I've got no sympathy for him anymore. I no longer care that he is the father to my child. In my eyes he has become a sperm donor. His behaviors show exactly how controlling he is. I about lost my shit last night due to it.

I'm going to get a restraining order asap. One that will protect me and my family and I will protect my son when he is born in late June/July.

I will gather and have been gathering evidence against him for some time now. I've got 95% of our phone calls recorded. I've got phone records showing him calling me 25 times in just a few minutes. I've been unable to use my phone because he won't stop calling.

I can book his number but all he does is just creats a new ones and harrasses me there. I've got to answer his questions or else he starts going phyco on me. I can't block him on anything.. I hate that. This is why I've finally had enough. It's mental abuse and I'm no longer putting up with it. I've delt with alot in my 20 years. If the next 18 years is spent protecting myself and my son from this monster I once loved then so be it. I've delt with child custody battles ever since I could remember. I know how the system works. I know a good attorney who will help me get a restraining order and help protect my child as well. He's expensive.. oh is he expensive.. but our safety and sanity is worth every last penny.

My baby daddy has a very long criminal record. He's been in jail multiple times. I honestly couldn't tell you how many since the number changes all the time.. he's got a 4 year old son already who he mistreats. His son is showing multiple signs of autism (even the mother is oblivious) and all he does is hurt the poor child when he cries. He doesn't help the mother at all. The mother helps him. He's homeless, bouncing from sofa to sofa ever since I left him. I've got an incredible case against him.. and that's not even mentioning when he's gotten physical with me.. that's just the last three months unfortunately. I remember he threatened to kill himself if I didn't take extacy with him... I was 5 weeks pregnant... I still feel so guilty about that, my baby is okay though. Growing perfectly well and stong. Very active sucker. Sorry this is so long. In a way I guess I'm venting and getting my thoughts out. I appreciate your comment alot. It allows me to know there are women out there going thru simular situations as myself.