Honest opinions please

So I’ll start with.. I love my husband to pieces. We really do have an almost perfect marriage.

So my issue, his drinking. We have a 15 month old and I’m 22 weeks preggo with our second. We’ve always been big drinkers- not like we have a problem but we’ve always gone hard. Things have obviously changed since having the baby and since I have obviously stopped drinking whilst pregnant we’ve had our actual first blazing rows. He rarely goes out as he works really hard and is hands on with the baby (I work too). However when he sees his best friend he just gets ridiculously drunk... like i mean can’t talk drunk. Like they used to at University together. It’s just really pisses me off. Last time was at their friends wedding... fine no problem. This time he came to visit us with his wife and they as usual got smashed and I picked them up and brought them home and literally my husband couldn’t keep his eyes open. He was saying stupid things (not too bad because just best friends were there but it embarrassing to think what he says when he’s out) I said come to bed with me will you? Baring in mind his friend is here for another night. He wouldn’t so I went up and they were being stupidly loud. Woke up the sleeping baby (just started sleeping through after a bad stage) and just being drunk and stupid. I asked him again to come to bed, it was maybe about 12, (baring in mind they’d been drinking from about 4) he wouldn’t. I really pisses off. Why can’t he just have a few drinks?!? Maybe I’m just jealous because I can’t drink like that anymore. Tell me the truth... am I being a bitch wife? Am I just crazy hormonal and taking it out on him? Or is he being an arsehole and I need to have serious words? Drinking ban until I have the baby? It just doesn’t seem fair everything stays exactly the same for the man when the woman has the baby (mainly) the house, a job and another pregnancy to deal with.

Reality checks please?!

Thank you for your comments.. I defo feel like I’m not a psycho wife anyway so thanks for that! He’s been really apologetic today and does say he’s too old for that stuff anymore. I am very honest with him about what he does and how I feel about it. If anything I’m too harsh. I think he needs to deal with this in his way- make the decision himself. His friend lives a few hours away so they only see each other a few times a year at best. I think we go from here and I should 100% get a girls weekend out of this debacle 🙄