Do you think he cheated? Or that she is lying?

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My friend and I done this thing to see if my SO cheated on me with his ex when he was at drill, suppose to be with a friend the day after. I found a receipt in his room which he knew about and said she probably threw it in his bag when he brought his laptop. The stories wasn’t adding up. So I had my friend text his ex, acting like an old friend from high school. & this was towards the conversation that got interesting. I just want to know what you all think. Do you think shes being truthful or lying bc she thinks it’s a set up?? I really need advice. He said nothing happened and they wasn’t ever in a hotel room together she just brought his laptop. Ladies please help. 😭 I trust him but I just had this gut feeling. I need actual advice not something short like “leave” tell me an experience or something, or what you would do exactly. When I showed him, he didnt really try to deny it. He left and changed everything. But came back and is giving me reasons why he wouldn’t do something. Please. Please talk to me about this.  
She texted saying “I can’t believe you had sex with him😂😂 he has a gf and everything” 
I am insecure. The only way she could be saying I’m “controlling” is if its because I don’t want him talking to her but he also agreed.  
They don’t have any kids together, no bills or anything together. Please tell me what you think. 
Do you think she messaged the friend on Facebook and asked if it was him texting her and she said no and said what she did bc she knew it was me?? 
I will keep updates to reply to who says something. I’m going to stay anonymous. Please help.

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I think if you going through all of this you need to break up with him because this is nuts to me. Let’s say you find out it’s not true and your partner finds out you are behind all of this. That will damage the relationship too. Trust your instincts

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I read up to the part where you said you trust him. Clearly you don’t or you and your friend wouldn’t have tried to set him up with this childish behavior. Either talk to him or just break up with him.

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Too much drama. Just leave

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She's definitely being truthful. He cheated on you and if you took it this this extreme, then you should leave him alone.... I've done this dumb shit before and it bit me in the ass.

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He slept with her there’s no need to lie about that.

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This is the 3rd or 4th time you’ve posted about this in like 2-3 days. Just leave the man alone already. Clearly he isn’t interested in you any more and you clearly need to work on your trust issues. You sound like you’re about 16-18 and have a load of growing up and maturing to do. On a side note y’all are from KY huh?

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This is just too much... if you’re going through all of this trouble and if he finds out you’re behind this it’s gonna be VERY toxic for your relationship. Just break up!

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To be honest it can go either way. She can be lying to your friend because she know your friend will come back to you. Or, she can be telling the God honest truth. But to be honest that part doesn't matter. You need to just break up with him because you dont trust him. It's a waste of your time and most definitely his time.

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Sorry to say that but it’s all sound childish

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You went through a lot of trouble to find out something you already knew. I’m always puzzled by women who choose to stay with a man that disrespected the relationship on the highest level. It’s not ok, ever, to cheat on a partner. It doesn’t matter the history. Take out the trash and get into a relationship that doesn’t make you want to do crazy things like impersonating someone else.

Do you think he cheated? Or that she is lying?

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