Is this Entrapment???
So when I was 16 I got with this guy he was 18. He moved in we started having sex with condoms and birth control. Well we got pregnant 4 months after I hit 17 in January 2016. I lost the baby early on due to his little cousin jumping on my lower abdomen (he was 4).
I ended up pregnant again in April 2016 was told I was losing the baby early but didn't lose him till after birth at 32 weeks due to a birth defect in November . I was 18 when I had him.
Fast forward to may 2017 I didn't know I was pregnant and lost a set of twins.
Then i got pregnant again in December 2017 and lost that baby as well.
I got pregnant again in January of 2018 and thank fully had my rainbow baby in October who is now 4 months old.
I just found out that my fiance was poking holes in the condoms we tried for a baby but when we did try we didn't get pregnant so we agreed to stop trying I would get on birth control and he would use condoms ik they are not 100%
But like wtf he told me he was trying to get me pregnant so I would stay with him. And not leaving him .I never knew this i found some old condoms because we stopped using them when i got pregnant in 2018. And there were little holes in them he tried to tell me it was from a mouse. Then he admitted that he had been Poking holes in them for the last 3 years 🤬🤬
Dont get me wrong I dont regret my kids but I wanted to wait till we didn't live with my parents and one of us had a stable job. Our sons funeral was expansive when you cant work because you just had a baby and daddy didn't have a job my parents payed for it.
I am considered high risk pregnancies now because of every thing. I cany work when I am pregnant. So my parents have been paying for my other sons stuff as well I have a job interview coming up this week. (I just got cleared to go to work)
He had a job after are son was born in October but lost it less then a month in. I have been contemplating leaving him for some time but when I do I usually got pregnant so I stayed with him (ik bad on my part ). I just dont know what to do anymore finding this out he wouldn't get a job to help take care of the baby
He acts like the baby is a chore to him 😥
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.