Help with masturbating!!

I'm a virgin and I need to masturbate. I tried reading some steamy passages and got wet. Then I tried putting in two fingers but could only manage one. How can I stretch to fit in more fingers? Also wheres the clitoris? I've heard a lot about it but I dunno where it is!...thanks

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There are so many nerves on the vagina but it doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re all inside of you. Start with playing with the outside of your kitty. Like your inner and outter lips, try different things and you’ll learn the most sensitive parts of your body. When I was younger I never understood fully what this meant until I tried it. Take your time and don’t force fingers inside of you when you can barely put in one. I’ve been having sex for 6 years and I still prefer one finger over two! Just be gentle.

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Ok if you can't find your clit try spreading your lips like your about to finger yourself but instead draw your finger up towards the top of your V... When you touch your clit you'll know it haha. From there just rub it and try to see what feels good to you

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Amanda • Feb 18, 2019
No problem! Hope you found it :)

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Rosie • Feb 18, 2019
Thank you!

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Start with one finger if you would like more pleasure start using something bigger

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The best thing to do is just take your time. I've found that as I relax more, I can handle more width. Aka more fingers. If you're still having a hard time getting two fingers, just wait and relax. It'll be comfortable soon enough.